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How do I deal with resistance and tantrums?
Resistance is part of it: “No!”, stomping feet, or crying. It often means your child needs clarity or rest. How you react makes all the difference.
Stay calm and brief
Say: “I see that you’re angry. We’ll try again later.”
Why this works: you acknowledge the feeling without starting a fight.
Use predictable sentences
Keep repeating the same words, like: “Pee goes in the potty.”
Why this works: predictability provides security.
Offer a choice
Say: “Do you want to try now or after this book?”
Why this works: choice gives your child a sense of control.
Keep it light
Sing a song or make a joke out of it.
Why this works: relaxation removes the tension.
Resistance doesn't mean you have to stop, but that you can make it more playful or shorter.
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