Afraid of the toilet: what helps?

Afraid of the toilet: what helps?

The toilet can be big and scary for children. You can reduce that fear with small, safe steps.

In this section, you'll get exactly what you need to get started right away, step by step.

Use a reducer and step stool

This makes your child feel stable and safe.

Why this works: less chance of slipping or feeling insecure.

Start with just looking

Let your child first sit on the closed toilet or watch you.

Why this works: gradual familiarization reduces tension.

Create a predictable ritual

For example: put down the step stool, put on the reducer, count together.

Why this works: predictability provides security.

Practice with short moments

Let your child sit for a moment and then get off again.

Why this works: successful experiences build confidence.

Don't force anything. Reduce fear through positive experiences, not pressure.