How do I speak calmly and clearly?

Kids learn through repetition and predictable language. Using consistent, short sentences keeps practice clear and calm.

In this section, you'll get exactly what you need to get started right away, step by step.

Pick one consistent sentence for peeing.

Always say: “Pee goes in the potty.”

Why this works: Clarity prevents confusion.

Use positive language.

Say what you DO want to happen (“pee in the potty”), not what you don’t want to happen (“not in your pants”).

Why this works: Positive reinforcement works better.

Repeat calmly.

Always use the same words.

Why this works: Repetition provides predictability and security.

Acknowledge feelings.

Say: “I see that you’re angry, and that’s okay.”

Why this works: Acknowledgment reduces tension.

Keep sentences short and concrete; this is easier for toddlers to understand.