How do I deal with a sensitive child?

Sensitive children experience everything through their senses more intensely. For example, they find it very uncomfortable to have wet pants. Diapers or underwear can also feel itchy. The sounds from the toilet seem louder to them. And they may also experience emotions more intensely. So if you get angry, it often really startles them. Do you have a sensitive child? Then take extra time and be mindful of these feelings. Name the feeling and see if you can help your child. Show understanding, but stay firm. Say, for example: “That wasn’t nice, was it, having wet pants. Come on, let’s get a dry pair. Then we’ll sit on the potty again later. We’ll make sure your pants don’t get wet again.” Take the time to get used to the sounds, smells, and sensations of the toilet and name them. Keep it neutral, and don’t label everything as “scary,” “exciting,” or “annoying.” Instead, say things like “what a loud noise,” “so many splashes,” and “you can really smell that, can’t you?”

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