How do I deal with a sensitive child?

Sensitive children experience everything through their senses more intensely. For example, they find it very unpleasant to have wet pants. Diapers or underwear can also feel itchy. The sounds from the toilet seem louder to them. And they may also experience emotions more intensely. So if you get angry, it often really startles them.

Do you have a sensitive child? If so, take extra time and be mindful of their feelings. Acknowledge them and see if you can help your child. Show understanding, but stay firm.

For example, say: “That wasn’t fun, was it? Having wet pants. Come on, let’s get you some dry ones. Then we’ll sit on the potty again in a little while. That way, we’ll make sure your pants don’t get wet again.” Take the time to get used to the sounds, smells, and sensations of the toilet, and name them. Keep it neutral, and don’t say that everything is “scary,” “exciting,” or “annoying.” Instead, say things like “what a loud noise,” “so many splashes,” and “you can really smell that, can’t you?”