How do I quickly create an initial success?
A first successful pee or poop in the potty gives your child a lot of motivation. But how do you increase that chance?
In this section, you'll get exactly what you need to get started right away, step by step.
Pick a predictable moment
Right after waking up or after a meal is a good bet.
Why this works: Success feels more natural.
Keep it short
Let your child try for 1–2 minutes, then stop.
Why this works: It keeps things playful and avoids a struggle.
Give a compliment
Say: “Good try, you gave the potty a shot!”
Why this works: Appreciation is motivating, even without results.
Celebrate the small wins
Is there pee in the potty? Let your child look proudly, high five!
Why this works: Positive emotion reinforces learning.
Repeat again soon
Try again later that day.
Why this works: Repetition makes the connection between feeling and potty clearer, faster.
It’s not about speed, but about trust. Every little step counts.