How do I quickly create an initial success?

Small steps help your child gain confidence.

How do I quickly create an initial success?

A first successful pee or poop in the potty gives your child a lot of motivation. But how do you increase that chance?

In this section, you'll get exactly what you need to get started right away, step by step.

Pick a predictable moment

Right after waking up or after a meal is a good bet.

Why this works:
Success feels more natural.

Keep it short

Let your child try for 1–2 minutes, then stop.

Why this works:
It keeps things playful and avoids a struggle.

Give a compliment

Say: “Good try, you gave the potty a shot!”

Why this works:
Appreciation is motivating, even without results.

Celebrate the small wins

Is there pee in the potty? Let your child look proudly, high five!

Why this works:
Positive emotion reinforces learning.

Repeat again soon

Try again later that day.

Why this works:
Repetition makes the connection between feeling and potty clearer, faster.

It’s not about speed, but about trust. Every little step counts.