Do rewards work or not?

Choose small, direct appreciation.

Do rewards work or not?

Many parents hesitate: should I reward my child for peeing or pooping? The answer: small, direct appreciation helps, but keep it simple.

In this section, you'll get exactly what you need to get started right away, step by step.

Compliments always work

Say, "Good try!" or "How clever you sat down."

Why this works:
positive attention boosts motivation.

Use small visual rewards

A sticker chart or stamp can be fun.

Why this works:
your child sees the result and feels pride.

Avoid sweets or gifts

Big rewards make practicing dependent and increase pressure.

Why this works:
practicing should remain fun and light.

Reward trying, not just the result

Even if nothing comes, say, "Thanks for trying."

Why this works:
this is how your child stays motivated.

Stop rewarding gradually once your child gets the rhythm.