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Child wants to do it themselves? That helps!

You'll learn why it helps when your child wants to potty train themselves. And how you can support your child in this process.

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Good to know

  • Potty training is often easier when your child wants to try it on their own. Many children want to grow up and do what other kids or adults do. That feeling helps spark their interest in the potty and the toilet.
  • You can help foster that interest by showing them that potty training is part of growing up.

What can you do?

  • For example, explain that older children and adults don’t wear diapers anymore.
    “Moms and dads don’t wear diapers. They wear underwear.”
    “Older children use the toilet.”
  • Other children can also serve as role models. Maybe a brother or sister, a nephew or niece, or children at daycare. Tell us about them.
  • For example, say: 

“Look, your big brother is going to the bathroom.”

“At daycare, the older kids use the potty.”

"Your niece is already 5. She goes to the bathroom on her own now. Isn't that great?"

  • Play with your child. Try putting a stuffed animal or doll on the potty. Oh no, Bear really needs to go—look, he’s going on the potty! Good job, Bear.
  • Let your child flush the toilet or wash their hands at the restroom.
  • Why not take your child with you to the bathroom when you go?

This way, your child learns that using the toilet and the potty is part of growing up. And it’s something fun to do together!

Tips

  • Tell your child about older kids you know who don’t wear diapers anymore. This often helps to set an example, because your child wants to be that big too.
  • Make it fun—for example, play with a doll or stuffed animal and the potty.
  • Join your child when he or she wants to go to the bathroom to watch, asks a question about the toilet, or wants to read a book about potty training. This will encourage your child to do it more often.

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